Saturday 25 June 2011

Tips for First Time Hot Date

Dating is a common pattern however, if you are in hope of having first time hot sex at your next date, you will need to ask yourself whether you are really ready to make the move and go all the way with you partner into the sexual haven?


Most of the girls feel excitement about their first encounters with their dream man and it is obvious that they feel quite nervous about it.


It is ok to be nervous and it is obvious if a hot girl feel slightly scared about the prospects of first time sex.


The following tips may help you to ease the tension and anxiety so that you may enjoy your first sexual encounter in an unforgettable manner.


First-time Sex: Things to Keep in Mind


Precaution
Precaution is the most important thing not only for the first time sex, but it is certainly the most important thing that should be taken every time you have sex.


A girl can become pregnant even at her first time sexual experience.


Teen pregnancy is certainly not desirable.

In fact, proper precautions will certainly help you to remain away from the issues related with teen pregnancy.


Since teen pregnancy is rising as a burning problem for United States, it is advisable to remain alert and apply proper precautions every time you plan for having sex.


Other than teen pregnancy, another side-effect of sex can be unwanted sexually transmitted diseases (STD) including AIDS.


You can avoid teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases by employing proper precautions.


Precautions may include contraceptive pills or condoms.


While contraceptive pills will safeguard against issues of teen pregnancy, it is better to opt for condom as a good condom will not only resist chances of teen pregnancy, it will also provide safety against sexually transmitted diseases.


Try to know more about contraceptive pills and condoms and learn how to use a contraceptive pill or a condom.

While none of these precautions ascertain fool safety, they will certainly provide fair protection.


Be responsible while having sex and if it is your first time sex, you need to be cautious.


Get some knowledge
While your family may consider sex as a taboo word and they may not even like to let you enquire about contraceptive pills or condoms, it is better to talk to your family or friends.

If it is possible, meet some expert and talk to her before you march forward to make first steps in your sexual haven.


Enquiring about sex is not stupid and it is certainly not taboo.


In fact, asking questions is simply sensible.


However, even if some hot girls feel too embarrassed to talk about it, they may use internet facility.


Search on internet, read other people’s experiences and learn from them.


Try to gather more information about everything about how to do it, precautions, teen pregnancy, STDs, AIDS and in fact, you may also learn ways to make your first sexual encounter a really excellent experience.


Don’t confuse sex with love
Many people mistake their emotions they feel during sex for love.


And it is very common for if it is their first time.


Just because you are having sex with a person doesn’t mean that you should be in love with that person.


If you already love that person, then it is a great thing.


However, you need to be sure about what you’re looking before having sex.


Clean up 
It is good to be prepared and since it is your first time, you may enjoy your makeup for the first encounter.


Shave or wax your hands and legs, trim your pubic hairs, and take a long, relaxing hot bath.


This will help you to feel clean, relaxed and somewhat prepared to have sex.


It is necessary to clean your private parts as that will make sure that you may not feel sticky and sweaty.


Better idea is to have a Brazilian wax as that will certainly be appreciated by your partner.


Relax
The very first motive to decide for having sex is fun and enjoyment.

However, sex can be scary.


It is necessary to get rid of your nervousness before you may plunge in the bed with your partner.


Take enough time to get relaxed.


You may decide to fool around while massaging each other as that will help you to ease tension.

Sex can be a big step for many girls.


It is necessary to be certain about your priorities.


If you are ready for your first time sex, it will prove enjoyable, if you are not ready enough, it would be better to say no, whatever your reasons are.


MTV’s Teen Mom 16 and Pregnant is a program basically meant to spread awareness against the evils and difficulties of teen pregnancy. Teen pregnancy is a genuine issue that needs to be discussed so that more teens may save themselves from the burden of motherhood at very early and immature age.


However, how genuine it is for Network channels to make personalities out of underage mothers?


This is a burning question. Another burning question is, in spite of their good cause, are MTV’s popular program Teen Mom 16 and Pregnant really doing the job of reducing the numbers of teenage pregnant by informing them about the problems involved? Or are they doing just the opposite work of promoting teen pregnancy and making it a popular fashion?


Some people believe that such shows like Teen Mom should be taken off from the air.


While commenting about ’16 and Pregnant, Lisa Lupner said, “It does no good-only promotes more teen pregnancy. It's sad the way these kids are being made famous for being irresponsible, and they will only be famous for their 15 min. then it's over. Then who's going to pay their bills?”


Her concerns are absolutely right and the current happening with Jordan Ward proves it.
Jordan Ward was 16 years old when she got pregnant first time. She gave birth to a son who is now 17-months-old and his name is Noah.


Her pregnancy was aired on MTV and she discussed about the burdens and problems she may face, she messaged that teens should avoid irresponsible sex activities and should about teen or early age pregnancies. However, just after 17 months, she is pregnant again. Obviously, her words don’t match with her deeds.


She is not the first Teen Mom who is facing pregnancy within a short period. Prior to her, Markai Durham also got pregnant for second time after her pregnancy was featured on the MTV’s show 16 and Pregnant.


However, Markai decided to abort her second child. She was certainly not in a position to provide suitable living conditions for second child.


One of the most troublesome issues for the society of the United States is teenage pregnancy. A lot many US teens get pregnant every year and they become single mother with little or no support. Obviously they lead a oblivious, poor and distressed lives. More problems occurs for their children as they never get the security of a family.


Many people have said that they hate this show; all it is doing is showing teenage girls that it’s okay to go out and get pregnant. It can land you on TV. Today’s society is totally different than it used to be”.


I just think it’s all pathetic.


It is hard to believe that teen girls are willingly becoming ready to be a baby producer outside marriage with no certainty of future. However, the case of Jordan Ward is certainly different.


When she got pregnant for the first time, she wasn’t married, she was underage, she was single and teen.


Yet now, she is neither a minor nor underage, nor is she a single. She is a married adult of age 18 and her husband is a linguist in the US Air Force.


However, is it right for a girl to be a mother of two children at the age of 18 years? I don’t think any sensible citizen of the United States will dream for a similar future for their daughters.


What if pregnancy brings your daughter, name, fame and glamour? MTV is doing exactly that.

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