Sunday 5 June 2011

Overcoming jealousy – 3 easy ways

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Overcoming jealousy is very easy and pleasant thing if you realize the inefficiency of such actions and know the good ways of its overcoming.
Is to feel jealousy means to love?
Every person remember the taste of jealousy. It smells like rabies, despair, fear of loss. Horrible and disgusting feeling corrodes from the inside and does not allow to sleep at night. If there is jealousy, love fades into the background, and at  comes a natural desire first: to arrange the hell to an abuser! There are many scenarios: some are limited with silent tantrums, while others make nightly raids, some people begin to massacre without trial. It all depends on the natural tendency to the toward self-destruction. One girl, for example, liked to be locked in the kitchen with opened gas. She has such an “original” way to attract attention. Fortunately, the ambulance came in time, allowing a failed suicide to become happy mother and wife.
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Jealousy is the beginning of the relationships’ end. Trust goes away once it appears, and therefore everything else: from tenderness to understanding. The question is, why to continue? Maybe it is better to find some ways of overcoming jealousy. But most people don’t even think on it.
Jealousy completely counterproductive, irrational, and most importantly – humiliating. You can learn how to get rid of it – through self-hypnosis and inner psychological training. It is very easy for those who are prone to auto suggestion.
Here are 3 easy and effective ways overcoming jealousy.
The first step: to believe in your own superiority. The training consists of a daily half-hour(or less) standing at the mirror with the repetition of spells: “I’m the most charming and attractive, all men(women) are delighted with me!” (Nice exercise! Try it today.)
Step two: play all-in. Jealousy is born of the obsessive fear of losing the object of desire. Do not be afraid! Believe in yourself. You can think about the opportunities that will arise in case of loss of a loved one. Jealousy will disappear by itself. It will be easy to understand it after doing exercise from the step one during few days.
Step three: just talk heart to heart with person. Very often, we make the problem which does not actually exist. Some people act very strange saying: “What if he(she) was unfaithful to me?” If you want to know – ask, do not want – relax and enjoy you life. If the person is silent after your question, you can always read it in his(her) eyes.
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So, overcoming jealousy is rather easy and fast process as you see. If you will have playful mood doing all 3 steps its effect will increase. Good luck!

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